The Death of the Grown-Up: How America's Arrested Development Is Bringing Down Western Civilization | 
enlarge | Author: Diana West Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin Category: Book
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ISBN: 0312340494 Dewey Decimal Number: 320 EAN: 9780312340490 ASIN: 0312340494
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“WHERE HAVE ALL THE GROWN-UPS GONE?” That is the provocative question Washington Times syndicated columnist Diana West asks as she looks at America today. Sadly, here’s what she finds: It’s difficult to tell the grown-ups from the children in a landscape littered with Baby Britneys, Moms Who Mosh, and Dads too “young” to call themselves “mister.” Surveying this sorry scene, West makes a much larger statement about our place in the world: “No wonder we can’t stop Islamic terrorism. We haven’t put away our toys!” As far as West is concerned, grown-ups are extinct. The disease that killed them emerged in the fifties, was incubated in the sixties, and became an epidemic in the seventies, leaving behind a nation of eternal adolescents who can’t say "no," a politically correct population that doesn’t know right from wrong. The result of such indecisiveness is, ultimately, the end of Western civilization as we know it. This is because the inability to take on the grown-up role of gatekeeper influences more than whether a sixteen-year-old should attend a Marilyn Manson concert. It also fosters the dithering cultural relativism that arose from the “culture wars” in the eighties and which now undermines our efforts in the “real” culture war of the 21st century—the war on terror. With insightful wit, Diana West takes readers on an odyssey through culture and politics, from the rise of rock ‘n’ roll to the rise of multiculturalism, from the loss of identity to the discovery of “diversity,” from the emasculation of the heroic ideal to the “PC”-ing of “Mary Poppins,” all the while building a compelling case against the childishness that is subverting the struggle against jihadist Islam in a mixed-up, post-9/11 world. With a new foreword for the paperback edition, "The Death of the Grown-up," is a bracing read from one of the most original voices on the American cultural scene.
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one of the most impacting books I've ever read January 3, 2009 This is one of the most impacting books I've ever read. She's put onto paper my observations of the demise of our country much better than I ever could. I'm planning to buy two more copies.
Some interesting anecdotes but that's about it - doesn't make any coherent points December 24, 2008 This book is a mess. The author comes across as someone who has a lot to say, given the torrent of words that she hits you with. But unfortunately, she has not taken the slightest effort to organize her thoughts. This text needed at least two revisions if not more before being published.
Regardless of the merit and validity of the author's point about adult society today, the book would've been interesting, and might have even made some decent points if it had a semblance of cohesion and organization, instead of the torrential directionless 214-page rant that it comes across as. A poor read, ironically demonstrative of the point she's desperately trying to make. Not recommended.
Where Have All The Grown-ups Gone? December 1, 2008 Remember the song, "Where Have All The Flowers Gone?" Well I changed it to, "Where Have All The Grown-ups Gone?" It certainly has been a long time passing since we have seen very many grown-up acting people. For the most part, they've stayed as children or rather self centered tenagers everyone. But while Diana West does a decent job of presenting the problem, what is the solution? To closely examine the problem, without presenting a workable solution is depressing. Because she presents no solution, I debated between giving this a three or four star review.
While I certainly appreciate her accurate assesment of the problem, it seems to me that Diana falls in the same trap that she so rightly accuses our "politically correct" population of doing. While she mentions Judeo-Christian values a number of times, you can count on one hand the times she mentions God. Our values based on faith in God and adherance to Biblical moral standards is what made our nation the great bastian of freedom that it is. When that standard of Biblical excellance went, so did our sound moral judgment, and sacrafical compassion. It has been replaced by self centered greed, the death of the grown-up, relative moral vales and the end of what made western culture superior (salty) and ever so appealing. For example, I recently saw a cartoon about illegal Mexican immigrints climbing the border's fenced walls to return to Mexico. Matthew 5:13 sums it up, "You are the salt of the earth: but if the salt has lost its savour, where with shall it be salted? It is henceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men." America, because of it's adherance to Biblical moral standands was the salt of the earth. Since giving up those standards, it has lost its savour and sad to say is pretty much good for nothing.
Also, while the cover design and book title were appealing, I agree with reviewers who contend that wearing a baseball cap does not necessarily make a person a immature teenager. And just because Jean Harlow played more adult roles, does that make her movies morally superior to Marilyn Monroe's films? And most importantly, did the moral decline in the United States really begin in the 1950s or at some earlier date? The roaring 20s saw many negative moral changes. Moral collapse doesn't happen all at once, but gradually as ever more immoral behavior desensitizes people and becomes normal. Yes, the fifties introduced various changes such as television, rock music (Elvis and others), disdain for parental authority and the adult world in general, and the first time emphasis on the teenager (the begginning of our worship of youth, which continues to this day), which accelarated our moral decay, but I'm convinced that the ever increasing moral bankruptcy that is threatening to destroy America begin long before that.
The last half of the book tells of our fearfully childish refusal to deal honestly with Moslem jihad. While it was informative, especially her history of Moslem violence, beginning with Mohommed, and I do see the valid point the author is trying to make, it also seems like material for a second book.
Wake Up! November 2, 2008 1 out of 1 found this review helpful
This is a must read for any adult, but especially parents. It chronicles the demise of civility in society as well as the disastrous results of 60 or more years of incredibly selfish behavior of all of us. If you would like to change that descent into barbarism, read and shape up!
Timely and worth reading in this election cycle October 15, 2008 2 out of 2 found this review helpful
By trying to do too much, I think she accomplished less than she could have. When syndicated columnists write books, a book like this is often the result. While in their separate articles, these thoughts and examples were probably quite powerful, when assembled with the more stringent and demanding requirements of a non-fiction book, they are less potent. There are two separate books in here, one on the lack of grown ups in our culture, and one about the surrender to Islam. Both books are full of good ideas, good examples, and compelling reasoning. But the second book feels poorly grafted on top the first. And the attempts in the second half of the book to connect it to the missing grown up theme from the first part, while true and accurate and important, feel labored.
That is what keeps it from being a five star book. Or, what I really wish, two five star books. But this is a solid four+ star effort. The complaints I read here are rather weak, pulling things out of context and amplifying the insignificant into the vital. All you have to do to see whether she has any punch in her arguments is to read her comparison between the Jean Harlow/Humphrey Bogart stars of yesteryear and the perpetual pouting adolescents we have in Marilyn and Matt Damon. The former were grown-ups. They were people who made decisions and acted upon them. Who accepted the consequences. Who said no when a no was needed. Today we are all victims, not responsible for our behaviors. Passive, weak, coy, and confusing sexuality with maturity. She is dead on. Her analysis of the adolescent Presidency from 1993 to 2001 is a knockout. And if we continue down this path, we will certainly continue to be adolescents not making decisons for ourselves, but the thought of who will be making those decisions is terrifying.
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